澳门六开彩正版资料网站49 第十六节 陋习“良心”也致癌 06
导读：伦敦大学的学者研究发现，人的性格与疾病有一定的关系。例如：I型性格：依赖性大，忧虑时容易产生绝望感和无力感，这种性格类型是易患癌症类型，故有人称之为癌症性格，亦有人...
癌症性格的表现为：性格内向，表面上逆来顺受，毫无怨言，内心却又怒气冲天，痛苦挣扎，有精神创伤史；情绪抑郁，好生闷气，生气时又不对外人宣泄。极小的生活事情便可引起焦虑不安，憎恨不罢，欲报复存心不休，心不豁达而格局小，心情总处于紧张状态；表面上处处牺牲自己，来为别人打算，但内心又有所不甘；遇到困难，事前不斗争，但到了最后，又要做困兽之斗；喜欢抑制烦恼、绝望悲痛的情绪；害怕竞争，逃避现实，企图以姑息的方法来达到虚假与和谐的心理平衡；贪欲懒堕又希望更多的等待，做事虚无缥缈，为利可伤亲害友，做事做人不本份诚实，油嘴滑舌，没有实话。为人不交心，处事多虚掩。应事十分爽，落实吃屎难。牛皮大个吹，骗谁都有胆。南北东西串，心神常不安。这些都是具有癌症性格的人，它可促使癌症发病率比普通人要高50倍。癌症性格是致癌的原因，实质上就是心理精神因素的致癌作用，可见，癌症性格就是一种致癌因素。
Researchers at the university of London found that there is a certain relationship between personality and disease. For example, type I personality: it is highly dependent and easily generates despair and helplessness when worrying. this type of personality is susceptible to cancer. therefore, some people call it " cancer personality", others call it " tumor personality", and others call it " type c behavior" or type c personality ( c is the first letter of the word cancer ). Type ii personality: less dependent, easily angry and excited when worried, it is a type of ischemic heart disease. Type iii character: it has two sides of type I and type ii and belongs to the type of personality disorder. Type iv character: self - discipline, good stress ability, normal type.
Cancer is characterized by introversion, superficial resignation, no complaints, angry heart, painful struggle, and a history of mental trauma. Depressed mood makes you sulk, and when angry, you don't vent to outsiders. Very small things in life can cause anxiety, hatred, desire for revenge, not open-minded heart and small pattern, the mood is always in a state of tension. On the surface, he sacrificed himself everywhere to plan for others, but his heart was unwilling. In case of difficulties, they will not fight in advance, but in the end, they will have to fight against trapped animals. Likes to suppress worries, despair and grief; Afraid of competition, escaping from reality and attempting to achieve false and harmonious psychological balance through palliative methods; Greed, laziness, and desire for more waiting. doing things is illusory. doing things for the benefit can hurt one's relatives and friends. being a person is not good at doing things.
另外，我们还常听到身边的朋友说，“我的性格不好，一着急就不能自控，事后都是后悔莫及”。当时就不能自控在“忍得一时气，免得百日忧”这句古训话上。是的，也有一句古话说“山难移，性难改”，这山不能移，人的个性是可以改的。那是因为没有受到特别大的打击，没吃过大亏，没受过重大的折磨与打击，也没获得重大教训，还没撞到难墙，撞到难墙不回头的人还会撞，一直撞到一提“难”墙就毛骨悚然肯定会回头。
2013年3月10号左右，北京电视台“法制进行时”报道一个长相很好的小伙，一次在北京通州乘车上对身边一位陌生的小伙说；“哥们，我没有钱了，给点钱花”，那小伙见势不妙，把身上仅有的两元钱给了他，当他想报警时小腿部却被要钱的小伙用刀给扎进去了，于是构成持刀抢劫伤人罪进了大狱，按刑法不少于5—7年坐牢。自己还说“就这两块钱，我怎么稀里糊涂的就成抢劫犯了呢？”
心理学解释它，平时他哥们意气太浓，缺乏法律意识，性格粗鲁没有制约。看这几年大牢出来肯定会回头。哪有改不掉性格，只有吃了大亏后自己才能改掉，才能知道“后悔药”没有厂家制造，只有靠自己慢慢研发。
作者想借此提醒一些秉性暴躁，我行我素，天地不怕，虽然刚直不阿的性格，但它会给你的事业与为人处世带来许多障碍，甚至会酿成许许多多的惨祸和患上疾病。比如“臭”，古人在造字上对人的性格都需要严格加免与控制的，自大一点就是“臭”，“念念有如临敌日，心心常似过桥时”。平时多改改自己不良的性格，看看《性格决定命运》一书，对自己事业的发展、疾病的预防与康复都会有意想不到的收获，警钟长鸣不为过啊！
In addition, we often hear friends around us say, " my character is not good, I can't control myself when I'm in a hurry, and I regret it afterwards." At that time, I was unable to control myself on the old adage of " endure temporary anger so as not to worry for a hundred days". Yes, there is also an old saying that " mountain is difficult to move, sex is difficult to change". this mountain cannot move, and one's personality can be changed. That's because they have not been particularly hard hit, haven't suffered big losses, haven't suffered major torture and blows, haven't learned major lessons, haven't hit the difficult wall, those who hit the difficult wall and don't turn back will bump, and those who hit the " difficult" wall all the time will surely turn back.
Around March 10, 2013, Beijing television reported on a very good-looking young man " when the legal system was in progress" and said to a strange young man nearby on a bus ride in Tongzhou, Beijing. " dude, I don't have any money, give some money to spend." the young man saw a genial smile and gave him the only two yuan on his body. when he wanted to call the police, the little leg was pierced with a knife by the young man who asked for money, thus constituting the crime of robbing and injuring people with a knife. he went to jail for not less than 5 to 7 years under the criminal law. He also said, " how can I become a robber in such a muddle with these two dollars?
"Psychology explains it. at ordinary times, his elder brothers are too emotional, lack of legal awareness and rude character without restriction. I'm sure I'll look back when I get out of jail in the past few years. There is no way to change one's character. one can only change one's character after he has suffered a great loss. one can only know that " regretful medicine" has not been made by any manufacturer and can only be developed slowly by himself.
The author would like to take this opportunity to remind some people that they are irascible, behave themselves, and are not afraid of heaven and earth. although they are upright and outspoken in character, they will bring many obstacles to your career and life, and even lead to many tragedies and diseases. For example," stink", the ancients needed strict exemption and control of people's character in writing. arrogance is " stink" and " thinking for a moment is like facing the enemy's day, and the heart is often like crossing the bridge". At ordinary times, I often change my bad character and look at the book " character decides fate". I will have unexpected gains in my career development, disease prevention and recovery. the alarm bell can't be too loud!
10.交友不慎心身衰
人的一生除父母与老师培养呵护成长以外，可谁都离不开朋友的帮助与相互支持。可朋友一词都能意会到它的含义，就连幼儿园的小孩也知道谁是他的朋友，谁是他最好的朋友。但几千年来谁也没有给朋友一词下一个准确的定义，人应该怎样做才可成为他人的朋友? 怎样识别真假朋友？如果能有个大概的标尺来对照，可能也不会，或少给一些人因交友不慎而造成心身性的疾病，有的还因其给家庭与社会等也带来了不可挽回的与损失呢。
朋友应当是相互支持与帮助的，可有许多“聪明”之人把朋友当作可利用或是发财的工具。给对方造成心灵的创伤与财产损失，影响他人心身健康，有的因伤害过重还一病不起，甚至造成他人家破人亡的恶果啊……
10. Casual friendship leads to mental and physical decline
Except for parents and teachers who cultivate care and growth in one's life, no one can live without the help and mutual support of friends. But the word friend can understand its meaning. even kindergarten children know who is his friend and who is his best friend. But for thousands of years no one has given a precise definition to the term friend. how should one become a friend of others? How to identify true and false friends? If there is a general scale to compare, it may not, or may not, cause some people psychosomatic diseases due to making friends carelessly. some people also bring irreparable and loss to families and society due to it.
Friends should support and help each other. however, many " smart" people regard friends as tools that can be used or made rich. Causing psychological trauma and property damage to each other, affecting the physical and mental health of others. some people cannot afford to be ill because of excessive injury, even causing the evil consequences of the death of others ......
人的生命只一次，在世都是过客，无论穷富都当拥有些很好的朋友。如能多交或储蓄几个知己，以防在力不从心或在忧愁困难的时候，能有个相互帮助性的依托，在共度过难关的同时，再促使各自事业向上的发展，彼此有个希望的鼓励与支撑，岂不美哉乐哉！但无论是做事为友应当先做人，人们在生活中大都有这样的感慨与埋怨过：“不是没好事，就怕没好人”“事情好做好人难当啊”。 那么，怎样为人处事才可交一些很好的朋友或成为他人的知己呢？能否先有个理念性的认识呢？这关键看其言行与所做出的结果是什么？作者感悟这样二十句话，可供人们在做事或衡量一个人中，是否能够做自己的朋友或知己，心理有个底线的标码，仅供可谓性的参考：
People live only once. they are all passersby. no matter how rich or poor they are, they should have some very good friends. If you can pay more or save a few confidants, in case you can have a mutual help support when you are unable to help or when you are sad and difficult, and at the same time help each other to tide over the difficulties together, and at the same time promote the development of their respective careers, and encourage and support each other with hope, wouldn't it be beautiful! However, no matter what you do for friends, you should be a person first. most people have such regrets and complaints in life: " it is not a bad thing, but they are afraid of not having a good person" and " it is hard to be a good person when you do things well." Well, how can one make some good friends or become the bosom friend of others when dealing with others? Can we have a conceptual understanding first? The key depends on what they say and do and what results they have made. The author feels that these 20 sentences can be used as a guideline for people to be friends or confidants in doing things or measuring whether they can be friends or confidants. they are only for sex reference.
朋友应当心心换，不可存心把人骗。
出多纳少朋友则，老耍心眼没人沾。
朋友好比一只船，落水救你到彼岸。
朋友就是好司机，路上把好方向盘。
好友又如好轮胎，忍气吞生保你安。
好友如同加油站，鼓励给你力量添。
好友也如五味酒，忠言逆耳那是甜。
好友也如和爽风，心影雾霾全吹散。
好友就是及时雨，枯萎禾苗全浇灌。
好友又是滚烫火，好料帮你把钢炼。
好友如同肥沃地，长出粮果叫人馋。
好友也是金钥匙，开动心窗给家暖。
好友优如显微镜，帮认病菌并不难。
好友似首老歌曲，曲催泪下词可传。
好友如师经典书，德品知识学不完。
好友就是大哥姐，当面指错后夸贤。
好友也如二老亲，不惜你我血汗钱。
好友又如手足伴，寒热坎坷赔心钻。
好友助尔知感恩，坦荡仁怀都夸赞。
男女老少交好友，朋友多了路更宽。
Friends should change their minds and not cheat others intentionally.
When you have fewer friends than dona, no one will touch you.
Friends are like a boat, falling down to save you to the other shore.
Friends are good drivers. steer the wheel well on the road.
My good friend is like a good tire, and he will swallow his anger to keep you safe.
Friends are like gas stations, encouraging gives you strength.
Good friends are also like five flavors of wine. it is sweet to be honest with one's words but not with one's ears.
Good friends are also like the wind of He Shuang, and the heart shadow, fog and haze are all blown away.
Good friends are timely rain, withered seedlings are all watered.
My good friend is burning hot again. he is expected to help you refine the steel.
Good friends are like fertile land. growing grain and fruit makes people greedy.
My good friend is also a golden key. he opens the window to warm his home.
Good friends are as good as microscopes. it is not difficult to help identify germs.
My good friend is like an old song, which can be spread under tear.
A good friend is like a teacher's classic book, and knowledge of morality and taste cannot be learned completely.
A good friend is the elder brother and elder sister. he praises the virtuous after pointing to the wrong person.
Good friends are also like parents, regardless of your hard-earned money.
Good friends are like brothers and sisters. cold and hot are rough and rough, and heart drills are lost.
Friends help you know how to be grateful and praise you with magnanimity and kindness.
Men and women, old and young, make good friends, more friends and wider roads.
然而，有的人会利用人性的弱点，用甜言蜜语，虚情假意，两面三刀，东走西串职业的忽悠。现实生活中还有一些更可恶的人沾污了人们心中的神佛，利用了人们信佛与耶稣的心里到处言词论道，摇头晃脑可谓是：手戴佛珠夸己贤，十字剑挂劝人善。谁识这是攻心术，时机一到把人骗。信天信神作为掩饰，其实什么经也不学不懂，但有一套真管用的骗人“经”。 你说其是人唾的人渣，可有时就连一些国家公务员也会信其“经”道，给原本也想实现当初雄心报国之志打了折扣，不注意细节性的原则，往往有时也为利犯迷的下“水”，更会被一些居心不测的人唯利是图，先用“剑”扎透你心，再用“圈”套住你手，致尔走进铁窗的牢也大有人在的。为取得别人的信任，开始与人“真心”交往，一有时机为利则就专坑骗熟人与朋友，而且还心狠手辣，不管别人死活。
However, some people will make use of the weakness of human nature, use sweet words, make false pretences, use two sides and three knives, and fool others with their careers. In real life, there are still some more abominable people who stain the deities in people's hearts. they use people's faith in Buddha and Jesus' hearts to talk about things everywhere. they shake their heads and say that they praise their good with beads of Buddha in their hands and encourage people to be good with cross swords. Who knows this is psychological attack, the time has come to cheat people. Faith in god as a cover, in fact, what also don't understand, but there is a set of really useful deceiving " classics". You say that they are human scum, but sometimes even some public servants in some countries believe in their " channel" and discount their original ambition of returning to the country. they do not pay attention to the principle of detail. sometimes they are addicted to " water" for profit. they will be made profit by some people who are anxious. first they use " sword" to pierce your heart, then they use " circle" to cover your hand. there are also many people in the prison where nell enters the iron window. In order to gain the trust of others, I began to " sincerely" associate with others. whenever I had the opportunity to benefit, I only cheated acquaintances and friends, and I was ruthless, regardless of other people's lives.
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